Thursday, December 13, 2012
Studies show that girls as young as 9 understand very clearly what sexy is and what it looks like. When I was 9, I was playing with Barbie and Baby dolls, watching cartoons and waiting for the ice cream truck to come down my block. Being sexy was the furthest thing from my mind. Now, our girls are hailing Beyonce and Rihanna as their "role models" and trying to live up to an unattainable standard.
Our society is over-sexed and all the images on television, in the movies and magazines and on social media have almost brain washed our young queens into a fantasy worled that takes them away from who they are. Who's fault is this? Society or ours? Can we expect society to be responsible for what our girls see and hear? No, that is the job of parents, guardians and family. This type of exposure lends itself to growing up too fast, having sex early and low self esteem.
Young girls are too focused on how their bodies look, rather than who they are on the inside. Nowadays, girls are learning from a very early age that there is power in their bodies. What they need to know is that there is power in their minds. They have the power to do anything and everything. We have to make sure they know this. We have to make sure they know it and live it.
Wednesday, December 12, 2012
This will be the year to speak up. Progress will not be gained by remaining silent. In any situation, think about what you want the outcome to be. Then ask yourself what you need to do to make it happen. You must speak up in all your relationships. Even where there is difficulty and you're facing difficult situations. Your words are important and have power. God is going to ask you to do things that you know you can't do on your own. However, God is going to equip you and call you out of your comfortable, normal box. Seek Him. There are truths that God is going to reveal to you. He is going to confirm ideas and plans that you have had for a long time. He is going to place people in your life that will help you on your path. It will change your life forever. Stop operating in the past. Even if you are dwelling on something bad that happened yesterday, you are giving life to it.
This will be the year to speak loud! Your life will settle for mediocrity if you don't give this life all you've got. Promise yourself that you will not allow anyone or anything to halt your blessings. Promise that you will get out of your own way.
Take a deep breath, roll your sleeves up and get with it. Do it. Create it. Write it. Plan it. Make it ALL happen.
Sunday, December 2, 2012
Thursday, November 1, 2012
Saturday, July 14, 2012
What causes us to give another human being an ultimatum? The inner time frame that we have established into the fibers of our being. Once that time has elapsed, frustration kicks in and we become restless; angry even. Oftentimes, the other person knows nothing of our time frame and frustration, and the ultimatum is a shocker. Where is this coming from? Human nature is an unyielding truth. We can't help how we feel but we forget to share those feelings with the person that will be affected by it. We always hope for the best and we think time is our friend. Time is not our friend. We let time take over and have control. That is not time's job and it hates being put in these situations. One of the main reasons is communication. We really suck at it. This menacing, almost torturing deliberation, is our friend. It is always there, however, we take it for granted. We rarely recognize its importance until its too late.